I know why my husband offed himself reddit Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Bless you for being there for him. He already doesn't trust me at this point. At this time I think I'm still in denial alot. Please leave him, and get the help you deserve (because yea you will need some therapy after this). She now volunteers at a suicide hotline for her own sanity. I asked my I don't know if this was ADHD related (not realizing that buying two bags of chips means he is still not trying to take better care of himself) or he just doesn't care if I'm attracted to him. I don’t know how to and I don’t want to. I don't know what I would have done. If you ever need to talk about anything or need to hang out me and my partner are always down. I would die for him and not even have to think about it. Clearly. I know what I did was a bad thing, but I can't tell my husband under any circumstances. The short term relief isn't worth the potential for long-term guilt/suffering because I know I would 100% blame "My soon to be ex husband knows everything now, apparently the guy who contacted me contacted my husband at the same time and confessed to him. and not interested in sex right then, he still forced himself on me, saying that sex would make me feel better. But one thing you need to know; your husband is a grown man. I hate it. I wanted to know why. I lost my extended family and my sons relationship because of my drinking. I’m so sorry. It sounds weird to say, but you will eventually be glad you have that with you. There is no "motive. 2 toddlers 16 months apart, plus another kiddo. 124 votes, 31 comments. When my husband and I got together I was healthy. We traveled and played games and sport. He would've been slobbering on himself and unresponsive. I’m 23. the funeral is in a couple weeks (I think) but I don't He died a year ago, by killing himself. We broke up over 2 years ago. Some of my reasons for wanting him to make healthier choices are selfish. My husband was frankly, an abusive sack of trash. If he threatens you with killing himself, just know that is another type of tantrum that he is controlling you Know how many of them actually offed themselves after the inevitable breakup? Zero. I thought that I would die because I love him and it felt like my heart was broken into million pieces. I know he behaves this way because he’s insecure. A dude offed himself in Notre Dame Cathedral because France passed gay marriage. I left my drunk husband at home and he probably offed himself #askreddit #reddit #redditstories Posted by u/Far_Interaction1693 - No votes and 3 comments Throwaway account cause my husband is a frequent redditor. Honestly, I should've offed myself. That show that you are making it. I know I should ditch him, but I've been divorced twice before and really have no desire to do it again. Posted by u/blackbirds28 - 5 votes and 3 comments My husband and I (f39 and m36) have been together for 5 years, married for 2. Me (14 att) and my brother Devan (16 att) were lagging behind the other two. In the past two and a half weeks I cheated on my husband twice. I have always known my husband had wandering eyes and for the most part he is amazing. There's a certain amount of ignorance that was just inherent in this small town Mormon community that weirdly enough you can still find in Idaho and Friend offed himself by jumping from a Highway bridge and getting Rolled by a car. He is an amazing dad. That bothers me despite everything that he did and said to me. If it wasn't for the love of my wife, and the way she opened herself and took so much of my pain within her, not to ease it, but to share it with me. I can’t do that to him. However, my husband doesn’t want to move and wants to stay in our small town. I punch myself. My cousin (19M) killed himself after a lifetime of She broke into my diary when I was 14 and shared it to her husband, her daughter, and her maid. My husband suspects that he is undiagnosed ADHD (he doesn't relate anything emotional with this) and I noticed how easy he gets frustrated and how hard is handling his emotions, if we have a small disagreement he gets red and starts crying, sometimes he can raise his voice (he doesn't say anything mean) and then is like he's incapable to focus on anything (driving, working, I left my drunk husband at home and he probably offed himself #askreddit #reddit #redditstories I asked my husband for a divorce and three days later he killed himself. I'm a 38 year old stay at home mom. He himself is all the names he Posted by u/coldasIcepop - 6 votes and 2 comments i only found out today. Here’s an article celebrating her memory. But he’s always been the type to retreat into his own shell when something bad goes wrong. Its Great writing friend. I feel like absolute garbage and I know that if I come clean, he'll leave me. Me (20F) and my husband (53M) have been together for 4 years, married for 1 year, and I've only recently discovered why he cannot finish in bed. He cheated on me with two different women. He should of done so much more for you and the kids today, least he could of done is get you some water. The university underwent a reckoning of sorts. I think it was shock more than real sadness. Not to mention I've always felt separated from my family and my background because of my name. When it seems things can't be worse and life is at its lowest, but we keep going especially for those who need us (a baby daughter) that's when strength is shown. I hated shooting my childhood heros :(. I knew that it was over but my curiosity got the best of me. 2 months ago, 8 days before my other half’s birthday he took his life as well. My husband had a threesome with my best friend and his girl best friend and I got so angry I hooked up with his boss and now I regret it. Here’s an article where she mentioned her Masterchef experience. He lets me know. I know that doesn't make sense and it's hard to explain but if he goes to a hospital again that alone might push him to kill himself. I want to move close to a university after this because I want to get my bachelors in person. I don’t know why the final Jerryrick popped himself. I don’t know what I thought had happened; that my garden was some sort of Pet Sematary and my husband had clawed his way back from the beyond? Even to me, of all people, that sounds crazy. I have covid and he forced me to drive him around places and slammed my car door so hard I think he broke it. Lady worker at my Walmart got her throat cut with a pair of scissors by a psychotic customer, she didn’t know them at all. Could I Have Stopped It? After spending years telling myself a story about what I’d missed and what I’d lost, I finally figured out a way During a 14-month period between 2014 and 2015, six MIT students and one professor—my husband—died by suicide. I'm so thankful and grateful for my family, god bless them. I just went through this a few weeks ago. I run a few businesses and we also have a nanny which really helps both of us when it comes to having our own time. My husband (26m) and I (28f) Hope he gets himself into therapy with another man to tell him that he needs to get it together and stop picking on you. I found out that my husband was having an affair while I was postpartum. 3 weeks ago my husband caught me in bed with my coworker. My husband been having sex with me in my sleep since 2014. She has 2 sons who are 12 and 15. He threatened to kill me, our family, then himself on a frequent basis. He deserves better and so do you. eyetalianstallion we know this to be true. This leads to another problem. I So me (31f) and my husband (32m) have been married for 13 years we have a son (3m), i love him so much. I love him more than life in itself. You're telling me he was that loaded and then got up and grabbed a huge ass 20 gauge and then offed himself perfectly? Nahhhhh. A 20yo boy that was close to my family also died by suicide, and despite not being close to him myself it sort of consumed me in a way I recognize in your post, I also needed to know why. I have a two year old son. I've wanted to step back but I can't. No fight, he’s just constantly pissed around me. The blade was right there in my bathroom mirror. Now you have closure. We were always So, my 17 yr brother offed himself for about two months ago. I'm drained, tired. Never reached out regarding issues, all of us kept in touch in our “bros” chat on messenger. 220K subscribers in the bettafish community. You will seek to speak with others who can relate and that will be helpful but when you are ready. I was arguing with one dude about how when Edot died his girl went to a bar 3 days later and she was happy mind you he wasn’t buried yet this nigga gonna tell me it was months after , he was like Edot killed himself now mind you this was under pdl post showing the d thang snippet and even d thang said it was a back door 🚪 don’t know who too blame , ppl are so quick to run with And then one year past and another guy from the group came back and I asked how the boys where and he got quiet. his business was going great but I just didn’t know he was that stressed or hurt either. And if he does, it still isn't your fault. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. I don't know if that is why he did it, could be many other reasons, but he seemed very happy and had a loving family. We have been married for nearly 12 years and have three crazy kids together. Left my friends, my family, and everything I ever knew to a town of less than 2k. I’ve never regretted something more. I don't know why I did. i’ll miss you most of all cousin danny. that phase of my life is over now. We were not close but we have a 14 year old son who just had a birthday. I really thought about it looking back. We aim to keep this a My husband killed himself. Clearly, being with your husband is On my birthday in 2019, me, my two older brothers and my father went to a mall for my birthday. They’ve been friends with benefits for almost a year now. I loved my husband, I loved my family but something about this guy was attractive. My husband put a hot water bottle in my bed as a surprise because I went to bed 30 mins after him and it’s a cold night here in Australia. I blamed myself too. Tbh I have just ignored it and tried to live A Decade Ago, My Husband Killed Himself. Looking back, I don't know why I didn't. Now that i know what to look out for, i help others to learn what to look out for When I decided to moved in with him, I had to leave my cat behind (don't worry, my sister took my cat in and love him as if he was her son) as I had to relocate to different country. I was slightly overweight when my husband and I met when I was 26, and have steadily gained a few pounds every year since then. Shit my bad! I didn’t realize that the official translation had already hit that point and I’m so sorry! I just got of a 16 hour night shift and brain. whatever. My husband puts up with it and says he doesn't want to be rude because they've know each other all their lives and his friend is autistic. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. I had everything and I still wanted more because I was selfish and I didn't have empathy for how my husband would Jesus. 12M subscribers in the relationship_advice community. I have a friend going through similar things and have struggled with it as well. My husband never knew about this and nowadays I can see how much he loves my son, but he will never be the real father. I know the dark place you found yourself in when that hateful seed finally took root; I’ve walked those harrowed lands myself. i thought it was a joke but he killed himself. I deserve it, I know, but I can't stand the thought of him not being in my life. I know technically I should call 911 when he is threatening to kill himself but I know that won't really help him. Feel free to read the whole story in my other post, but basically, I cheated on my husband 3 years ago, and I'm trying to figure out how to get things back to normal. He’s turned into such a lazy and nasty slob. Should I tell him? upvotes My husband shot himself and I tried to stop him but realized if I couldn’t and the bullet ricocheted there was a chance one of my babies could have been in harms way. He also cares for me and knows exactly what I need to hear and how to comfort me when I'm in a bad spot, and never makes me feel bad for asking for help or admitting my negative feelings. But I did know him and we shared interest and talked. My husband (40M) doesn’t know and I just found the video again on the internet. He very much hates my guts and has done since the day I rejected him. I myself have attempted many times and know others who have but my bf, who has cried only 4 times this year , really set me off with just that one sentence. I'm tempted to email the video to his best friend and let him know to humiliate my husband. Probably should have gotten my shit together before dropping that bomb, but I He told me if we didn't get back together he'd do it and he did it. My ex mother in law once upon a time said “you know, my son really enjoys a clean home” and I saw red. When I first met my husband (on hinge) at the end of April 2022, he was suuuuuuper insecure and controlling. Anyway shit my bad on that I didn’t mean to, it was an oversight on my end and I’m sorry. I know this is only Reddit but I will be here if you need a random to speak to who can relate to you more than you know. Has anyone else had this happen to them? However, I can't count with him like a help him as well. I knew where and how to cut, but instead I packed my Sometimes I just want to end it quick but then I think about my son being without me and my heart breaks. Her husband killing himself probably wasn’t full possession; he was either eliminated in the same way Annie’s husband was, or he sincerely just wanted to die bc of the craziness/sadness all around him. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. It didn't, and afterward I told him I wasn't and has apologized multiple times, but he's constantly making passive aggressive comments, like "I know I'm filth, but" or "I know I'm My husband had gone insane, I said. I even had a problem at my wedding because my birth certificate raised questions because it had my Mom's maiden name on it and my father's last name and then mine which was totally different. My heart hurts because I know exactly what you’re going through. I felt sad but I also felt like I didn't deserve to feel sad because I didn't really know him . So in My husband and I have been together for our whole adult life and he took his life on Friday. Your husband was also SICK. For literally no reason. The feeling that hit me was weird. We’ve been together for almost 6 years now and for the most part everything is great. I don’t know what to do. Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or I lost my mother and grandfather a few days apart in April 2020. , why would i cheat on him,, i don't know. I know he's always has some self-confidence issues but they've gotten much worse in the past year. I (F33) absolutely adore my husband (M32)! He is so handsome, intelligent, has a great sense of humour and we just fit together so well. Thank you, again. I’m more down to earth and love to craft and he is more crazy and loves to do random shit late at night. I know if things are bad for him then I've really let things get out of hand. Afterwards I will probably need to look into taking legal actions if that’s possible and tell my family. If he makes a mistake like spilling a coffee he curses loudly and starts saying how I didn’t want him to know I was snooping but the thought of my husband not being around tore me. I also used to slam my head in doors. I don’t know how I can possibly apologize. We have been together for 8 years, married for the past 2 and have a 1 year old son. I just have so much guilt. Bio dad offed himself by taking a bunch of pills the day after my 5th birthday. I lived alone, unemployed because of a wealthy trust granted to me by family. I dont think he's intentionally trying to manipulate you but i know how distressed and confusing it must be. My husband and my sister both committed suicide albeit 18 years apart. I’m shameful and guilty because two wrongs don’t make it right. I don't recall any heroin addict other than Kurt Cobain, dying like that after injecting that amount. Hated every second of it, and he stopped trying in our relationship pretty much the minute I was settled there. It hurts as hell and my husband knew how much I love my cat and that I have severe anxiety. This is not a healthy way to resolve conflict though. My mom actually knew this family. Whatever progress he had diminished thanks to covid. Stickers with the Some lovers try to hang on to a relationship by threatening suicide. He hates me. Here's why they do it—and what others can do. I love my husband, he’s one of the nicest and kindest people I know. This is a throwaway account. My ex of 3 years died in a plane crash a few weeks ago. I (42f) have been with my husband (45m) for a decade. And I have no way to escape this. Then my uncle called me a soon becoming criminal if I continue to write my diary and my don't know why, just the image I'm getting with this story. And now everytime I think about that, even though I know he’s better, my heart just ultimately sinks. Edit: Thank you to the people in the comments for the advice, I’ll try my best to attend to it (and hopefully find a therapist). This situation honestly seems like a blessing in disguise to me. She plans to stop talking to anyone who still has a relationship with him. I mentioned that he overdosed taking my medication and besides the guilt that brings, I’m concerned about why I need those drugs in the first place and how that affected him. I have been in constant pain and stress about everything that happened but my brother in law is now exposed to everyone about what he did to me. They don't just disappear, not for me anyway, it's an ongoing battle. 53 votes, 59 comments. Don't put that on yourself. Not only to me but to my husband and children, none of which knew my past. 2 night ago i woke up around 2 am, don't know why i woke up but when i woke up my husband wasn't next to me. Edit: Thanks everybody for the posts. I also own 5 guns. Here’s her husband’s tribute. I know exactly what you meant :) Thank you. Due to the amount of miscarriages I've has sex is painful. I love him so much. I am now medical staff at a childrens hospital and do these risk Assessment. It's not for me to tell her what she should do or what's right. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. Comments on that post mentioned an indication that my husband may be abusing me and I just don't I've lost members of my immediate family to suicide - as well as many other members of my family, unfortunately. I’m a pretty big horror movie fan, and my husband is not but he watches them with me because he knows I like them. I feel bad because my mother hasn't really dealt with his loss and she can't talk about it to me or my sister. I think that is a very beautiful way to send him off! Personally I'd prefer if he sacrificed himself rather than killing himself. Posted by u/just_a_person06 - 5 votes and 3 comments Hi, I recently posted my story somewhere else, but I was directed here because some people said that I might get some better help here. Husband does nothing to clean up after himself. My mother is insanely insecure (still), and had an insane amount of pent up rage, she let out at me, and was insanly depressed. For so short a time as we knew one another, my ex husband and best friend took his own life back in November of 2021. You don't have an obligation to raise funds, do ted talks, inspires others, etc. But managed to reply that he had 2 hands and a heartbeat and was welcome to pitch in. My son's real father lives 2 hours away from my house, and I am afraid if my husband finds out. I'm not too bothered by how I feel comments sorted by Best Top New Controversial Q&A Add a Comment. it was the cliche, corny love story. He was healing but slow. Most intense experience in my life. It's ok to hate what he did, but try to forgive him for your own peace of mind. He’ll ask himself why he wasn’t enough. But after a while, it won't hurt as much. 44M subscribers in the AskReddit community. My husband and I have two kids together and I consider myself fit, curvy and beautiful. I My ex husband did this to me too. I don't know her and I don't know her bf or what they've been through. I stayed for almost 7 years, and even that was too long. i cheated on him after his diagnosis with cancer and now he is going to kill himself. He still hasn’t come out and I haven’t had the courage to go and bother him. You don’t deserve this treatment. You need to leave him, there is no way you can ever trust him again. Trust me, it was felt. Neither of us were reacting so she finally blurts out “Her husband literally offed himself to get away from her, why are you married to this bitch”. I don't know what to do anymore. He's a big boy (well, he's legally an My sister's husband of 18 years has always been mentally, verbally and on rare occasions physically abusive toward her. I know there are support groups that have resources for loved ones lost to suicide (usually pushed by command) while in the military. Posted by u/TheDimwitedPoopster - No votes and 2 comments This happened years ago, and yet, of course I still miss him. So, buckle up, this one’s going to be a long one. My husband wasn’t always good to me. I feel horrible. If I try talking to my husband or mother they just lose their tempers with me or call me an I know the point or the lesson was that sometimes no one sees a suicide coming and sometimes we never know why, but this was one puzzle I really wanted House to solve, for his sake and for mine. My husband is also physically disabled due to workplace negligence, which is something I know he feels so self-conscious about. I feel like my husband got diagnosed with like stage 1 cancer and instead of attempting treatment just killed himself. I can’t say I lost my friends but some of his yes. My husband genuinely wants to kill himself. My experience was different, but my husband killed himself too. I've been cheating on my husband for the past year and recently called it off. My brother doesn't know this but our dad has Anytime I want anything sort of big, my wish gets shut down by him. He doesn’t clean up behind himself and leaves things so messy to the point where I have to clean to do basic things such as prepare a meal for myself. That was June 14th of last year. i still have his stupid furry artwork in my pc somewhere that I can't look at now, even jokingly, because I feel awful that I wasn't there for him to talk to him after a The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver Which always leads to weird questions). I really failed my duty to my younger sister as an older sister both before and after her death. Over the last several months I have been trying really hard to lose weight and get healthy. Been there, brother. My aunt went to school with Jan and my grandpa worked in a church position alongside the dad. She survived with a gnarly scar and we don’t have scissors out where the customers can see them anymore. He typically doesn't lead with his emotions but he's really opened up and changed that for me over the years. Every time I touch that part of my heart, it hurts, but it let's me know that my dad is still with me, and that he won't ever fade. It’s time for a divorce. i’m so confused my Skip to main content. We'll listen, and if you want, we'll talk. r/rickandmorty A chip A close button. Nope, cause we’d just say it because we know the other person wants to hear it and we know if we just say sorry, the arguing will stop. My brother is supposedly stressed out because this means he will have to cut contact with me. tldr; ive been with my husband for ten years. We were always I mention the second method because everyone is different and everyones relationship dynamics are different. We chatted, exchanged nudes, had late night conversations, I was actively having a deep emotional affair and I wasn't realizing it. Sometimes my partner bear hugs me when I'm violent and that helps. exe decided ‘hehe make meme, hehe think later’. You know why he has been so distant. hope u know it wasn’t my choice. Skip to main content. You are however responsible for your own mental health and happiness. I don't know why I kept the conversation with my ex open. I hate this man. Thanks for listening. I’ve watched my dad stand by my mom and at first it was admirable but at this point it’s just painful. " As I said, I did it because I wanted to. Of course I found none. Me and my husband are 23 and 22 respectively. Just asking why he took my side and not hers, then escalating to why he was with me at all considering I’m just a useless mooch (her words). I love my husband so much and he’s the best thing that happened to me. Posted by u/Pia-the-Pangolin - 183 votes and 38 comments I've been with my husband since I was 19. I have no idea how to comfort him or help him cope with the loss of his dad. He could do serious damage. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told. He left us an angry goodbye letter in which he claimed that we ruined 12 years of his life, that we are the reason why he's still depressed and suicidal and that he hates us with a passion. They want to meet my children and be a part of their lives. Before I start this story, I’d like to state, we are both in therapy. Wanna know why, because at the young age of 13, i learned what effects it can have my parents are a good example. I think I might be the worst wife in the word. Most people can’t tell that I’ve had kids. He’s really a great husband. I feel like I should be upset that he died, but I'm not. My two best friends died from alcohol. I don’t know where to start. Get your children out of the household as fast as you can so they don’t have to be rejected by their father on a daily basis. I regret it all and now I want to kill myself He treated me so well, was always there for me and I betrayed him and let him down and now I don't know if I can go on how does anyone deal with a guilt like that I killed a man with my selfishness now I miss him I want to hold him but I cant and I dont deserve to anyway Both my husband and I were in physically abusive relationships previous to each other, and honestly in the course of our marriage; we haven’t even raised our voices at each other. My younger sister killed herself four months ago on I've become more content and at peace with my rough past relationships knowing they help me love my husband and care for him more. I can’t speak for you but I know I was depressed for a long time in my relationship. In his suicide note, he blamed me and my toxic attitute towards him. Grief has given me a pretty good filter of, "yep that's worth my time" or "nope, that is bullshit" and add in a 2 year old and my time/energy is the most valuable thing I've got to keep us going. My husband and children are traumatized and my family is bombarding me to forgive them. If he makes a snack, the mess stays out. 🥺 op. He was scared he was going to lose his job so he offed himself. hope you’re doing well. Mine is once every 2 weeks his is currently 3x a week. My aunt's husband had a psychotic break (thru meds) and hanged himself, and, while she has moved on, I know it still, decades later, affects her. At 18 he finished school, got accepted into his dream university, moved out and cut off contact with my husband and me (he still kept talking to his siblings). I’m a 25 F who married to 25 M. Maybe give him some time to himself after you tell him what’s bothering you. I don't really know how to react or cope. I’m sorry for the rant I just needed someone to talk to. I trust my husband to draw a line when he needs to and advocate for me. I can't lose him, not now I cried uncontrollably in front of my roommates. I'm so sorry. In the end, it's probably better that he offed himself, because one of our coworker whom I'll call "Jules" later told us that he had talked about killing his wife and kids. He put me through hell during those three years. Part of me loves that. One the exact caliber shotgun he did. I know I'm not alone in this. If it wasn't for that. Unfortunately, there are no records of my husband, nor our marriage, nor our life together. I basically put him into a situation where he could: leave, give me the house and kids, and all of For the longest time I didn't want to scare my husband so I wasn't fully honest with him about my suicidal thoughts. I didnt use to know how to read the signs when someone is serious about selfending. 10 minutes passed and i decided to go and look what he was up to. 1 week ago he took his own life with a shotgun. Expand user menu Open Jerry couldn't handle all the knowledge of the universe and offed himself? My husband is gonna die to get back at me. If he takes off his jacket, it goes on the floor. hope u know it wasn’t my fault. I don’t even know if there is anything to forgive. My husband is the same, slightly overweight and has steadily gained. My soon to be ex is coming to town this weekend and he wants to talk. You know there’s nothing that can be done to fix any of it. Me and my husband read the email together and started laughing, i'm happy they're getting their karma, now they know how i felt, they wanted me to help them and to reconcile but i wrote "Get over it" and blocked them, I don't need garbage in my life, i only need my husband and daughters. I don’t know. I rarely ask him something because I know how anything can be frustrating to him. I've also never had a real life relationship to compare mine to, to know if things are normal or whatever. All of us wondered why, he was that dude that pulled all the bitches, was life of the party, seemed to have everything going on for him. I am 6 months sober and the fucking demon that is alcohol haunts me every day I will pray for you and your husband and I’m not religious. All the time. The small town we live in has a community college, and I’ve almost finished my associates degree. My ex killed himself 2 weeks ago. Told be that boy number too killed himself. I've had two ectopic pregnancies that result in both tube's being removed for two separate pregnancies. It is easy to be strong when things are fine, when we feel out best. Here's a list of what he's been doing that I'm worried about. I stayed in bed and waited for my husband, as i thought he might have gone to the bathroom or something. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, My husband killed himself after he found out that I cheated. My ex who I cheated on just killed himself. Like if the suicide squad breaks the link between the leaguers and Brainiac only for the League to die indirectly saving the suicide squad and/or civilians. His girlfriend basically begged me to give my mom a chance because he has know idea how to ask me. One drank himself to death, the other liver cancer. My best friend offed himself back in March, like actually gone, I hope you’ve found peace. It's been really bad for me lately and I have been called out by my husband here recently and told it's time for therapy and meds. I don’t know what to do now. This isn’t how open relationships work and tbh I don’t know why you seem to have accepted this for so long before you discovered the truth. He's so afraid of being seen as unsociable and rude that we end up with crap we don't need and people we don't like. He's a dog person so he got me 4 cats. Little anecdote: I moved to an entirely new country for my now ex-husband. 2 days ago my 16m friend randomly offed himself after posting a long paragraph that he misses a girl who dumped him. A subreddit for all things related to our colorful finned friends. He mentioned that she struggled with mental illness. It's a form of self harm and it is NOT a healthy coping mechanism. You need counseling. I don't know the dates because I didn't know he was dead until I plucked up the courage to ask an ex mod of the server we were both in why he had [deceased] added to his username. It’s been 11 1/2 years since my BIL offed himself, and I remember both me, hubs, and his whole family went from anger to sadness, Know you're not alone and that there is help out there. He’d snapped, started acting like a child, killed one man, then tried to kill me. I would have loved to see how Kutner developed under House over the years. And if you don’t have kids yet, please do not bring any into this world with your husband unless he gets sober. No I didn't resent my husband, and there was nothing wrong with our sex life. Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home I just want to know if it’s really trauma, if it’s really worth crying over or talking about to like, a therapist. For those of you who think he is in love with me, he isn’t. Everything was going great we were actively trying to have a family and everything seemed happy. Anything of my disease is too much for his mind to lead. Though you may love your husband, at the end of the day you need to matter to yourself. What was it she had that I Annie’s brother was the real intended vessel once gramgram got in the mix with the cult, but it didn’t take since he killed himself. I also wanted to make a post on Reddit but I haven’t been able to. My best friend did the same thing. Theory I did play the game but I don't think they ever addressed how or why Larry k/lled himself I need other fans to their theories or the canon reason why🙏🏾 Obviously something was up when you wife was heading out on Friday nights and not coming home until Sunday nights. I feel so empty and hurt. I (30F) am at my wits end with my husband (35 M). He died alone. You’re not responsible for others decisions or actions. It's been 29 years since my brother offed himself, I still occasionally hate him for it, I still miss him and wonder what his life would be like now. Your husband is being a jerk. I had to protect them but I watched my husband and tried everything short of tackling him to make him understand how much I love and need him. I’m 6 months pregnant. In my heart, I 28 votes, 12 comments. We spent about 5 years just totally and completely in love and so happy. I told my husband and he did try to kill himself (not to scare you). I left my drunk husband at home and he probably offed himself #askreddit #reddit #redditstories to keep it short, we have 3 kids, the youngest is 6 months. So much. I’ve left some of the finer details out for the sake of trying to streamline this, but let me know if anything is unclear in the comments. My husband works hard and travels extensively for work. Don’t let 5 more years go by because by then it’ll be even harder to leave. My husband is 25. Unfortunately, the military is a big steaming pile of grey area, where they make their own “laws” and do as they please. everyone is grieving. I relate. The fact of the matter is that there is almost no way to know why a I 15F have a sister 13F and a dad 50M I Don’t really know what to think about what happened tonight. I’ve caught him on his phone cheating on me with multiple women, he stole thousands of dollars from me, emotionally and psychologically abused me, isolated me from friends and family. his shitty mom is acting like nothing happened. Maybe then they would care. . Just read here that Beth from Season 5 died last March. When I met my husband’s friends in the beginning of the relationship I thought they were nice people and I was happy that I was gaining more friends through my husband but that changed however since nobody of my husband’s friends liked me. Just looking for advice I love my husband, he's my rock and I'm unbelievably lucky to have him in my life. I didn't even know the guy that well. i’m happier without them but there are things i will miss. My father was overdosing on stress. I didn't get enough details to paint a picture as clear as yours, so I think it's great that you did and used it to help others to pay more attention, his case had a few similarities. But there’s this one girl in particular that he keeps having sex with. I’m still confused why Larry offed himself. My mom even remembers being over at their home when she was missing. My sad guess is that she may have unalived herself. I almost died multiple times. It was weird. That part of you that died with him, it won't ever come back. His entire life he has been a bully to her, putting her down mentally and verbally. I'm sorry for your loss, it's never It takes time, but you will heal. I am sometimes apart of his sessions unless asked to stay out. The first girl was a stranger he just met when he was out one night. He knows Crohn's disease is hard for me, he always offers help but I know he can't help me. We have 2 children. I remember being sick to my stomach and bawling in our room just thinking of the idea of not having him around. He was neglectful, belittles me, hits me, just My Husband forced himself on me. Get help, and be there for your daughter. The mortgage was not paid by my husband, but rather the I have anxiety and depression as does my husband. No, my husband is dead. We gave up on him years ago. My husband is my entire world. Reddit iOS Reddit Android Reddit Premium About Reddit Advertise Blog Careers Press. If he offed himself and I wasn't around to at least try to help him, that would haunt me for the rest of my life. I know why she did it, and I know there was nothing anyone could have done. He jumped in front of a truck. On my birthday in 2019, me, my two older brothers and my father went to a mall for my birthday. The only other thing I was thinking of doing was emailing it to him so he knows I know (haven't told him I've seen it yet). l used to see him at our local coffee shop but never really gave him much attention. It still lingers in my mind. scm ejyu wyoz veoi ibzj orfxt ywmt nytvez kghd cdiwp